Pain is Inevitable

"pain is inevitable, i would rather have your honesty than your silence"

These words came from my favorite book THE BELOVED. She is definitely right upon saying these words. We can never remove pain in our lives and it is better to feel pain than not to feel anything at all. Experiencing pain is not so bad after all. There are times that it is only through pain that we will be successful, happy or learn. We can never say that we have lived our lives to the fullest if we are not able to experience pain.

Another line from the book is " pain and suffering is not all there is to life"
she's strong and logical. Through the absence of joy and happiness we are able to feel sufferings and pain but how did we know that we are experiencing pain or suffering if are not able to feel joy and happiness. Sometimes we tend to see our lives as full of problems and crisis. Bt we shouldn't forget that we are experiencing those because we also experience happiness and in humans life there should be a balance of everything.

"MODERATION" from aristotle. we can't have all that is good or all that is bad. WE should be in the middle for what is over is not good and what is less not better.